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Series review

Am I Being Unreasonable?

2022 · Created by Selin Hizli, Daisy May Cooper · Series · 30m

In a sentenceDaisy May Cooper is funny enough without making us do detective work between laughs

Nic (Daisy May Cooper) and Jen (Selin Hizli) are at the centre of a comedy-drama with a mystery running through it. Their relationship sits alongside a guessing game about the characters, as comic exchanges give way to darker moments and the story changes direction. Lenny Rush plays Ollie, with Dustin Demri-Burns as Dan and Phil Dunning as Gavin. Cooper and Hizli also write the series, which Jonny Campbell directs. The first series runs to six half-hour episodes, moving between humour, personal difficulties and unanswered questions about the people involved.

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Daisy May Cooper and Selin Hizli make the first series of this uneven comedy-drama worth trying. The darker scenes often persuade, but the mystery sometimes interrupts feelings the performances have made convincing.

The first series of Am I Being Unreasonable? is worth trying for Daisy May Cooper and Selin Hizli, with some patience reserved for the plotting. The writers and stars want laughter, unease and sympathy to arrive close together. Six half-hour episodes give them a manageable amount of time to attempt it. For a while, the switches between humour and darker character drama keep the programme lively. The difficulty comes when finding out what has happened becomes more important than caring about the people involved.

Cooper plays Nic with an abrasiveness that makes even the less successful comedy watchable. Her delivery gives the writing a considerable advantage, while her moments of vulnerability feel awkward enough to resist easy sentiment. We were moved more than we expected when that aggression gave way to hurt. Having laughed at Nic’s manner, we found ourselves concerned for her. Those changes in Cooper’s performance give the darker material a reason to be here beyond keeping the audience uncertain about what sort of programme it is watching.

Hizli’s Jen gives Cooper someone worth watching closely, and the chemistry between them makes their scenes feel less laboured than some of the surrounding plot. Both performers can sustain interest when there is no immediate joke to reward it. Lenny Rush, playing Ollie, is another substantial reason to stay: his comic timing feels unforced, without the insistence that can make a young performer exhausting. The casting is the most consistently successful part of the programme, and frequently makes its changes of mood persuasive.

Director Jonny Campbell has to accommodate comedy, darker character scenes and a mystery without making each change feel like the start of another programme. At its strongest, the direction allows unease to remain after a laugh, leaving us unsure how warmly to regard these people. The darker passages are often more assured than the openly comic ones. Some jokes feel like interruptions, particularly when the actors have already made a difficult feeling worth staying with for a little longer.

The less satisfying choices belong to Cooper and Hizli’s writing, which is too keen on keeping us guessing. Delayed information can make a character intriguing, but repeated uncertainty also makes it harder to invest in what they are going through. Here the puzzle sometimes takes attention away from the hurt that the performances have made convincing. There are stretches when the next change of direction seems to interest the writers more than the consequences of the previous one, and the emotional scenes suffer for it.

As dark comedy, the series has the advantage of performers who make difficult company worth spending time with. Its willingness to allow unpleasantness and vulnerability into the same performance gives it more interest than a succession of neatly delivered insults would have. It is less reliable at making the jokes and the mystery work together. Too often, one has to wait while the other gets its turn, producing an uneven rhythm that the short episodes cannot entirely disguise.

This is for those who like their comedy uncomfortable and can forgive an erratic mystery. The humour will not work every time, and the plotting occasionally asks more patience than it earns. Cooper, Hizli and Rush are worth that patience, particularly when the programme gives their performances time to register. Watch for the people; treating every exchange as a clue would make this a rather tiring evening.

Critical consensus AI synthesised

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The Times
5 February 2025 · Carol Midgley
90*

The second series surpasses the first as a darkly comedic rollercoaster with a scalpel-sharp script full of twists. The main draws are Daisy May Cooper's chaotic performance and Lenny Rush's extraordinary turn as her son.

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The Telegraph
23 September 2022 · Michael Hogan
80*

Daisy May Cooper is back to her abrasive best in a whip-smart, grown-up comedy-thriller that mixes genres inventively with strong casting and characterisation, especially the young actor as the son. It is an idiosyncratic and surprising series full of twists and tonal shifts.

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The Guardian
23 September 2022
70*

The series tries to do too many things to be truly great but its star is phenomenally funny and occasionally heartbreakingly vulnerable. Cooper and her co-writer/co-star deliver strong comic and dramatic moments alongside a talented young actor, though the elements do not fully cohere.

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Radio Times
23 September 2022 · ★★★ · James Hibbs
60

The mystery and darker character moments work best, with strong chemistry between leads and standout work from the young actor playing the son, but the comedy is hit-and-miss and the tone uneven.

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The Hollywood Reporter
10 April 2023 · Daniel Fienberg
60*

The show intrigues and frustrates equally; strong performances by Cooper and Hizli, but the guessing game structure undermines emotional core. Often interesting, sometimes distracting.

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The i Paper
23 September 2022 · Emily Baker
40*

The series lacks narrative drive and direction compared to This Country, making twists and themes feel thin, though it is far from bad television.

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Straight answers AI written, from our review

Is Am I Being Unreasonable? worth watching?
Am I Being Unreasonable? is worth watching for anyone who likes their comedy uncomfortable and can forgive an erratic mystery, and we scored it 70. Daisy May Cooper, Selin Hizli and Lenny Rush make difficult company worth keeping, and the darker scenes often persuade. The guessing game sometimes interrupts feelings the performances have already made convincing.
How long is Am I Being Unreasonable?, and what is it rated?
Am I Being Unreasonable? has episodes of about 30m. It is a comedy and drama series.
Where can I watch Am I Being Unreasonable? in the US?
Am I Being Unreasonable? is streaming on Hulu and Disney+ in the US, and it is also available to buy from Amazon Prime Video. Availability is checked daily; the links above go straight to each service.
How does Am I Being Unreasonable? compare to Volver?
Am I Being Unreasonable? is a British comedy-drama in six half-hour episodes, while Volver is Pedro Almodóvar's family melodrama, and the film is the more assured of the two. Both keep grief close to laughter, but Almodóvar holds his moods together where the series keeps stopping for its mystery. Choose the series for abrasive comedy and Cooper's performance; choose the film for warmth and Penélope Cruz.
What should I watch after Am I Being Unreasonable??
After Am I Being Unreasonable?, try Volver (2006, Fi1m 84): Family secrets and practical women keep grief close to laughter. Then Muriel's Wedding (1994, Fi1m 81): For the humiliation, bruised friendship and hurt beneath the jokes.

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