Preston (George MacKay) and a woman in pink seated in a blue-lit bar
Film review

Femme

2023 · Directed by Sam H. Freeman, Ng Choon Ping · 1h 39m · MPA NR

In a sentenceA revenge thriller in which the revenge keeps getting put off by the sex

Jules (Nathan Stewart-Jarrett) performs in drag at a London club, under lights and glitter, and is at ease there. One night, still in wig and dress, he walks to a corner shop for cigarettes and is set upon by a group of men. The one who leads the attack is Preston (George MacKay). Months later Jules has stopped performing and barely leaves the flat he shares with Toby (John McCrea). Then, in a gay sauna, he sees Preston, who does not recognise him out of drag. Jules goes home with him. What he intends to do about it, and how long he can keep his face still while doing it, is the film. Written and directed by Sam H. Freeman and Ng Choon Ping.

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Fi1m review

Two fine performances from Nathan Stewart-Jarrett and George MacKay, an opening act that had us rigid in our seats, and a plot that asks Jules to make choices we did not believe. Worth your evening, if you can take the first twenty minutes.

Sam H. Freeman and Ng Choon Ping have taken a hate crime and built an erotic thriller on top of it, which is either a brave idea or a tasteless one depending on how it is done. Here it is done with care, and for about an hour Femme is as tense as anything we have sat through in a while. The tagline is “Seduction is revenge”, and the film means it. Jules (Nathan Stewart-Jarrett) is beaten in the street by Preston (George MacKay) and his mates for wearing a dress; months later he finds Preston in a sauna, unrecognised, and decides to get close. The performances are the reason to see it. The plot is the reason we stopped at a recommendation and did not go further.

The opening is the best sustained stretch. Jules is on stage under pink light and glitter, and Buki Ebiesuwa’s costumes make clear this is a serious performer, not a costume-party idea of drag. Then he walks to a corner shop, still in the wig, and James Rhodes shoots the pavement outside in the flat white of the shop’s strip light, with nowhere to hide. We were horrified, and what horrified us was not the blows but the wait before them: MacKay’s Preston circling, needling, playing to his friends for a full minute before anyone lays a hand on Jules. Rhodes holds it at a distance, as if we were across the road and had decided not to cross.

Then the film moves indoors, and mostly stays there. Christopher Melgram’s sauna is tiled corridors and red gloom, and the house Preston shares with the friends who drift through it (Aaron Heffernan and John Leader among them) is a mess of consoles, cans and closed curtains. Adam Janota Bzowski’s score is a low electronic pulse that comes up under the sex and the silences and rarely lets us settle. Selina Macarthur cuts the sex scenes on faces rather than bodies, so what we watch is Jules deciding, each time, whether to go on. That is the right choice, and it is what makes the middle of the film hard to look away from.

MacKay does something we did not expect. His Preston has a shaved head, a neck full of tattoos and a voice pushed down into a growl, and every one of those things is visibly a decision the character has made. When he is alone with Jules the voice lifts, the shoulders drop, and a frightened person shows through. Stewart-Jarrett has the harder job. Jules has to want revenge, want Preston, and hide both at once, and the actor does it mostly with stillness and a stare that goes on a beat too long. There is a scene of the two of them side by side on a sofa with a video game, saying almost nothing, that moved us more than any of the film’s shouting did.

The trouble is the plan. Jules has one, and we will not say what it is, but the film needs him to go back to a violent man again and again, and the reasons it offers grow thinner each time. Freeman and Ng are more interested in Preston’s inside than Jules’s, which is an odd emphasis for a film about the man he attacked, and John McCrea’s Toby, the flatmate who watches all this with increasing alarm, is given worry and little else to play. The second half takes turns we will not describe. Some of them require Preston’s friends to behave conveniently, and the last stretch trades the slow dread of the first hour for plotting we could see coming.

It does one thing the revenge thriller rarely manages: it keeps changing its mind about who it is for. Most films of this type know from the first reel who deserves what. This one gets muddier as it goes, and the muddiness is its best idea, even when the story around it is creaking. It runs 99 minutes and does not feel padded.

The 18 certificate is earned by the sex, which is frank, and by the violence, which is brief and worse for it. Watch it with someone you can argue with afterwards, because you will want to.

Critical consensus AI synthesised

77
Positive
14
Mixed
3
Negative
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Most critics take to Femme, and they agree on why: the performances. Nathan Stewart-Jarrett and George MacKay are praised in nearly every review, usually for the shifting balance of power between them, and the film is widely described as a tense, sexually charged neo-noir that turns a revenge plot into a study of how men perform masculinity. The reviews cluster tightly around four stars, so the spread is narrow.

The reservations gather at the ending. Several critics find the final stretch forced or unclear, and The Skinny and Deadline both say the conclusion undercuts what comes before. The New York Times questions the decision to humanise the attacker at such length. The sharpest dissent comes from the festival run: The Hollywood Reporter calls the pace sluggish and the tone an old kind of queer misery, while The Playlist finds the whole thing heavy-handed. Even the doubters, though, single out the two leads.

Screen Daily
19 February 2023 · festival review
85*

The critic describes Femme as a tremendously effective, subversive and sexually charged revenge movie that reframes neo-noir by harnessing a hate crime. The impressive feature debut and the intense power-play between the leads are singled out.

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The Guardian
30 November 2023 · Peter Bradshaw
85*

The film is a well-worked-through psychodrama of sexual danger and revenge with tense developments and reversals that keeps viewers on edge. It features outstanding performances from Nathan Stewart-Jarrett and George MacKay with delicacy, subtlety and depth.

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Vulture
1 May 2024
85*

The critic highlights the film's potent erotic thriller elements, where desire and domination blur identities and power dynamics. Strong lead performances and ambiguous writing make the revenge story volatile and compelling.

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IndieWire
19 March 2024 · B+ · Ryan Lattanzio
83

The critic praises the bruising queer revenge thriller for its complex exploration of trauma, vengeance, and unexpected tenderness between attacker and victim. The film ends with an unsettling lack of clarity that leaves a powerful impact.

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Empire
1 December 2023 · Sophie Butcher
80*

The critic praises the film's tense, exhilarating exploration of sexual manipulation and shifting masculinity through a dual character study. Strong performances by Nathan Stewart-Jarrett and George MacKay make it a vividly compelling ride despite familiar revenge tropes.

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Evening Standard
30 November 2023 · Nick Howells
80*

The critic highlights the film's deliciously queer take on revenge, delivered sizzlingly hot as a nerve-tingling erotic thriller. It is deeper and more satisfying than expected, with excellent turns by the leads and a beautiful, liberating climax.

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Straight answers AI written, from our review

Is Femme worth watching?
Femme is worth watching for anyone who can sit through a hard opening twenty minutes, and we scored it 75. Nathan Stewart-Jarrett and George MacKay give two fine performances, and the first hour is as tense as anything we have seen in a while. The plot asks Jules to make choices we did not believe, which is why we stopped at a recommendation.
How long is Femme, and what is it rated?
Femme runs 1h 39m and is rated NR by the MPA in the US. It is a drama and thriller film.
Where can I watch Femme in the US?
Femme is streaming on Amazon Prime Video in the US, and it is also available to rent from Amazon Prime Video and Apple TV from $4.99. Availability is checked daily; the links above go straight to each service.
How violent or frightening is Femme, and is it suitable for children?
Femme carries an 18 certificate in the UK and is not suitable for children or younger teenagers. The violence is brief and worse for it, chiefly a street beating early on that the film draws out before the first blow lands, and the sex is frank throughout. The squeamish should know the dread rarely lets up once it moves indoors.
How does Femme compare to Weekend?
Femme is the harder and more dangerous of the two, a revenge thriller built on a hate crime, where Weekend is a small, plain love story told mostly in talk. They share a shape, two men in one flat over a short stretch of time, but Haigh's film is the truer and better made. Choose Femme for tension, Weekend for tenderness.
What should I watch after Femme?
After Femme, try Weekend (2011, Fi1m 86): Two men, one flat, two days; the gentle cousin of this film’s middle hour. Then Promising Young Woman (2020, Fi1m 72): A revenge plan that keeps being derailed by the person carrying it out; and Moonlight (2016, Fi1m 89): A boy and the friend who hurt him, meeting again years later, saying less than they mean.

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  3. Weekend (2011, Fi1m 86)Two men, one flat, two days; the gentle cousin of this film’s middle hour.

  4. Promising Young Woman (2020, Fi1m 72)A revenge plan that keeps being derailed by the person carrying it out.

  5. Moonlight (2016, Fi1m 89)A boy and the friend who hurt him, meeting again years later, saying less than they mean.

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