Adèle Exarchopoulos as Agathe dancing in a pink dress beside Franz Rogowski as Tomas
Film review

Passages

2023 · Directed by Ira Sachs · 1h 32m · MPA NR

In a sentenceA man in a mesh crop top wrecks two households in ninety minutes and never once suspects he is the problem

Tomas, a film director, finishes shooting in Paris and stays late at the wrap party after his husband Martin goes home. He dances with Agathe, a woman he has just met, goes home with her, and the next morning tells Martin exactly what happened and how much he enjoyed it. What follows is a few months in three lives: Tomas moving between two beds and two flats, Martin deciding how much more he can take, Agathe working out what she has walked into. Franz Rogowski, Ben Whishaw and Adèle Exarchopoulos play the three; Erwan Kepoa Falé is Amad, who comes into Martin’s life. Ira Sachs directs from a script written with Mauricio Zacharias. It runs 92 minutes and carries an 18.

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Ira Sachs’s love triangle is short, sharp and superbly acted, with Franz Rogowski as a director who treats other people’s lives as rehearsals. It keeps its distance from everyone, including us, and gives Agathe less than it gives the men.

Tomas (Franz Rogowski) is a film director, and the first thing we see him do is tell a young actor, take after take, how to walk down a flight of stairs. He is not pleasant about it. That night, at the wrap party, his husband Martin (Ben Whishaw) goes home early and Tomas stays to dance with Agathe (Adèle Exarchopoulos), and then to go home with her. Ira Sachs’s Passages, written with Mauricio Zacharias, follows the next few months in the lives of these three people in Paris, and does it in 92 minutes without a wasted scene. It is a good film, sharp and well acted, and its one real flaw is that it finds the man doing the damage more interesting than the two people absorbing it.

Rogowski is the reason to see it. He plays Tomas as a man who never stands still: he cycles through the city standing on the pedals, walks into other people’s rooms as if he had paid for them, and wants whatever is not currently in his hands. Khadija Zeggaï dresses him in cropped jumpers and a mesh top that would look absurd on almost anyone else, and on him they read as a dare. He is charming for exactly as long as it takes to get what he came for, and Rogowski lets us see the switch flip every time. It is a horrible performance in the best sense, and we could not look away from it.

Here is the moment that got us. Tomas comes home the morning after the party, climbs into bed with Martin and announces that he has had sex with a woman, and that it was exciting, in the tone of a man reporting a good lunch. We laughed out loud at the nerve of it. Then Sachs held on Whishaw, who says almost nothing, and the laugh went sour in about four seconds, because Whishaw’s face told us this was not the first morning like this and would not be the last.

Whishaw does a great deal with little to say. Martin is tired in a way that has taken years, and Whishaw plays the tiredness first, so that when the anger does come it lands. Exarchopoulos makes Agathe warm, direct and clear-eyed, easily the most likeable person on screen, and the film gives her less than either man: we know what Tomas wants and what Martin has stopped wanting, and we are left to guess at her. Erwan Kepoa Falé, as Amad, a man who comes into Martin’s life, is drily grown-up and a relief whenever he appears.

Josée Deshaies shoots the flats and streets in plain daylight, keeps the camera at arm’s length and lets scenes run without cutting into faces. The sex scenes, which are long and explicit and there are several, are done the same way, in unbroken takes with the camera kept well back, so we watch two bodies negotiate rather than two faces perform. Sophie Reine cuts scenes off a beat before they resolve, which is right for a film about a man who leaves rooms, and occasionally frustrating for us. Pascale Consigny gives Martin a home full of things that took time to gather and Agathe a small, tidy place that Tomas immediately fills. There is almost no music, and the film does not need any.

The distance is also the trouble. Sachs watches these three the way Tomas watches his actors, with interest and without much mercy, and by the last half hour we wanted the film to sit with Martin or Agathe for a scene that was not about Tomas. It rarely does. A dinner with Agathe’s parents goes the way you fear, and is funny, and tells us nothing we did not already know. Against Keep the Lights On (2012), Sachs’s earlier film about a man who cannot be trusted with the person who loves him, this is cooler and cleaner and less bruising.

It carries an 18, and it earns the certificate in three or four scenes, none of them gratuitous; the sex is where these people tell the truth, since they will not do it anywhere else. See it, ideally with someone you are not in the middle of leaving.

Critical consensus AI synthesised

72
Positive
11
Mixed
3
Negative
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Most critics like Passages, and the praise gathers almost entirely around the three leads. Franz Rogowski’s Tomas, a director who wrecks his marriage by sleeping with a young woman, is described again and again as magnetic and loathsome at once, while Ben Whishaw’s wounded husband and Adèle Exarchopoulos’s lover are credited with holding the film steady. The reviews agree it is frank about sex, and that the explicit scenes drive the plot rather than decorate it. Several call it Ira Sachs’s strongest work in years.

The reservations are about Tomas himself. The New Yorker finds the film relentlessly pessimistic, leaving everyone in despair to no clear end, and The New York Times calls it a wince-inducing toxic romance with misery and no resolution. The Wrap thinks the other two are thinly drawn beside him; Deadline finds the sex scenes awkward rather than candid. The spread is fairly narrow, and even the doubters credit the acting.

The i Paper
31 August 2023 · Christina Newland
85*

The critic describes a sinewy, sexually explicit and beautifully constructed romantic drama full of longing and emotional devastation. They single out the remarkable performances, especially from Whishaw, and the sensual, steamy energy.

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Empire
1 September 2023 · Kambole Campbell
80*

The critic calls it a captivating tale of self-immolation and a queasily compelling character drama about a narcissist blowing up his marriage. They single out the excellent performances from the three leads for praise.

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Little White Lies
30 August 2023 · 4/4/4 · David Jenkins
80

The review calls the film a tantalising romantic car-crash driven by Franz Rogowski's magnetic performance as the self-serving director Tomas. Superb acting from the whole cast and top-notch craft make it involving and mordantly funny.

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Los Angeles Times
2 August 2023 · Justin Chang
80*

The critic calls it a torrid, thrillingly messy whirlwind of a romantic triangle with major appeal, praising its beautifully acted dynamics and the director's skill at examining relationships. It singles out the central character's magnetic yet loathsome id and a notably candid sex scene.

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Radio Times
★★★★ · Jayne Nelson
80

The film is an excoriating, intelligent study of a selfish man whose actions upend those around him. Rogowski's astonishing performance blending arrogance and vulnerability, and Whishaw's powerful silences, are singled out for praise.

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Time Out
20 February 2023 · ★★★★ · Stephen A Russell
80

Sachs delivers a sexy, sad and very French love-triangle drama with elegant Truffaut-like flair. The critic singles out the deft handling of collapsing relationships, expressive framing and standout performances, especially Exarchopoulos in a key scene.

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Straight answers AI written, from our review

Is Passages worth watching?
Passages is worth watching for anyone who can stomach ninety minutes in the company of a charming man wrecking two households, and we scored it 77. Franz Rogowski is the reason to see it, Ben Whishaw and Adèle Exarchopoulos are the reasons to stay, and the one real flaw is that the film finds Tomas more interesting than the people he damages.
How long is Passages, and what is it rated?
Passages runs 1h 32m and is rated NR by the MPA in the US. It is a romance and drama film.
Where can I watch Passages in the US?
Passages is streaming on MUBI in the US. Availability is checked daily; the links above go straight to each service.
How violent or frightening is Passages, and is it suitable for children?
Passages carries an 18 in the UK and is not for children or younger teenagers. It is not violent or frightening; the certificate is for several long, explicit sex scenes, shot in unbroken takes with the camera kept well back. The squeamish should know the sex is where these people tell the truth, so it cannot be skipped.
How does Passages compare to Weekend?
Passages and Weekend are both short, plain films about men in and around bed, but Andrew Haigh’s is a love story and Ira Sachs’s is a study of a man who cannot stay in one. Weekend is the warmer and the truer of the two, and it lets you like its people; Passages is the sharper, and it keeps everyone, including us, at arm’s length.
What should I watch after Passages?
After Passages, try Weekend (2011, Fi1m 86): Two men, one Nottingham weekend, and talk that matters as much as the sex. Then Happy Together (1997, Fi1m 86): Wong Kar-wai’s couple in Buenos Aires, breaking up and starting over in a loop; and Jules et Jim (1962, Fi1m 88): The triangle Sachs is quietly answering, with more joy and the same wreckage.

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If you liked this, try…

  1. Keep the Lights On (2012) · not reviewed yetSachs’s earlier, rawer film about loving a man who keeps disappearing.

  2. Weekend (2011, Fi1m 86)Two men, one Nottingham weekend, and talk that matters as much as the sex.

  3. Happy Together (1997, Fi1m 86)Wong Kar-wai’s couple in Buenos Aires, breaking up and starting over in a loop.

  4. Jules et Jim (1962, Fi1m 88)The triangle Sachs is quietly answering, with more joy and the same wreckage.

  5. Great Freedom (2021) · not reviewed yetRogowski again, quieter and just as physical, in a West German prison.

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